Sunday, March 4, 2007

Possessiveness is who's best friend???

Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus and from there they bring with them this unique feature that goes by the name "possessiveness". Now what is that all about? I, many a times have wondered why on earth is it that we are so god damnned possessive about everything that we are supposed to "own" or is labelled "ours"? What joy do we find in it?
Is this what maketh our package complete and lovable all at the same time?
I tend to disagree... and heres why...
"I have read somewhere that too much of something is bad enough".. There is a song to this tune as well... Well I am one of those who believe that possessiveness in itself is too much... Its like a drug that kills...kills you, people around you, your relationship with them..everything..
As the age old saying goes, If you love something, let it go... let go of this necessary evil as well... and you will see that it all ends up making all the sense in the world...
So to all women out there and all the men out there who have entwined yourselves in this evil web, dont befriend this particular evil and see how that makes the difference...


2 comments:

Yuva said...

yes, In possessive -- there is more of self-interest than friends... look thru telescope but not microscope.

Reminds book a read sometime back::
Relationships of all kinds are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold on to some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost...-- Chicken Soup for the Soul

/Yuva

Sandy said...

I agree with you.